Attraction · L5 · Stability and conflict
Calm strength
Pro6 minLesson 1
By the end you'll be able to
Steady yourself under pressure before you respond. Freezing her out until she makes peace, or yelling whenever you feel like it, isn't calm; state boundaries in words.
Key ideas
Calm strengthEmotional stabilityBoundaries in conflict
Try the first question
This is the lesson's opening question. It's free to play.
At dinner she's upset that you forgot, again, that you'd promised to visit her mom with her. Her voice keeps getting sharper. Your heart is pounding, your face is hot, and you badly want to fire back, "Like you're never late?"
What's the best first move?
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