1. When you think about speaking up or asking someone out, you usually…
Usually go ahead; nerves are fine Overthink and often miss the moment Almost never ask; fear of rejection wins
2. After a soft no or a slow reply, you more often…
Accept it and return to your own life Reread the chat and rewrite the next line Send several follow-ups to explain or recover
3. When chatting goes well, how do you advance?
Suggest a concrete time and activity Want to meet but stay stuck in chat Wait for them, or keep postponing
4. When replies drop or plans fall through, you tend to…
Check behaviour, ask once if needed, then decide Invent many reasons and avoid talking about it Double down with gifts or tests to warm them up
5. When deciding whether to continue, you mainly look at…
Mutual investment and respected boundaries Occasional warmth, overlooking repeated coldness Potential and imagination over actual behaviour
6. When you see hesitation, control, or behaviour that unsettles you, you…
Pause, clarify, and leave if needed Know it's off, but keep giving another chance Rationalise it, or stay to avoid being alone
Rough self-reflection, not a personality label. Scored in your browser.