Attraction · L4 · The first date
The mindset behind paying
Pro8 minLesson 3
By the end you'll be able to
Explain how treating out of generosity differs from treating out of people-pleasing. Stop when it comes from guilt, a trade for intimacy, fear of losing her, or adding money to buy her willingness.
Key ideas
Generosity vs. pleasingNo throwing money aroundNo paying for willingness
Try the first question
This is the lesson's opening question. It's free to play.
Dinner's done and the check arrives. A thought flashes through your mind: "If I don't pay, will she think I'm cheap and not want to go out again?"
If you pay with that thought in your head, which mindset is it closest to?
Pick one answer
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